Some people are adored by cats, while others are avoided at all costs. But why is that? The reason often lies in behavior.

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We’ve often wondered what determines whether a cat likes someone or not. Numerous studies have tried to uncover which of our traits make us appealing—or off-putting—to cats. There are a few personality-related characteristics that our purring companions tolerate the least. And there are several behaviors they dislike as well. Let’s take a look at what these are!

There are certain things cats simply can’t stand

The Constantly Nervous One

To be honest, it’s not only cats—other animals and even people don’t appreciate someone who’s always stressed out around them. A nervous person is usually loud, impatient, and may even slam things around. Cats, on the other hand, crave peace and quiet (and the hormones released in calm moments even change their scent!). If you feel yourself getting worked up and don’t want to scare your pet or let your irritation affect your relationship, it’s best to avoid your cat for a bit—though chances are they’ll disappear before you even notice.

The Love Bomb

According to one of the latest studies, cats prefer people who respect their personal space. That means not constantly grabbing at them or trying to smother them with affection—and accepting that they sometimes (often) want to be alone or do whatever they feel like. Those who struggle with boundaries in relationships tend to fall out of favor with cats rather quickly.

Too much affection can also be a problem

The Always-on-the-Move Type

Some people simply don’t know the meaning of stillness: they’re constantly doing something. Tidying, rearranging, organizing—whenever they have a minute. Such active, high-energy individuals can easily become bothersome to a cat who spends most of the day peacefully lounging around. And you can’t really nap soundly in the middle of a battlefield.

The Indifferent One

Just as a cat dislikes someone who’s always chasing its attention, it also doesn’t respond well to someone who shows zero interest. Because when cats do want human company, there’s no negotiation: they want pets and playtime!

Working from home isn’t always easy with a cat around

If your cat rubs against you, presses their face against your hand or leg, or hops onto your desk right in front of your monitor—and you ignore them, or worse, shoo them away—they’ll remember it. Rejection leaves a mark on the relationship. So we recommend taking a moment for your little boss when they ask for it. They’ll repay you with love.

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